Thank you Randall for your response, sorry for the busy first post.
Here are some pictures of where I am at now:





What I do want is a Kerdi watertight system, so whatever the means to achieve this in a quality manner I want to go with.
Re-looking at most of the information here and other places leads me to understand that one should use the Kerdi drain with the Kerdi system unless there is no practical way of doing so, so I think that answers my own question that my exising drain, mud bed and pan needs to go.
The questions that remain are:
Is there any preference as to type (modified or unmodified) thinset and as to brand of thinset for use under and over the kerdi? Practical experience welcome here.
Is there any concern as to vapour lock between the kerdi and plastic vapour barrier I have up?
I am pretty handy, but this would be my first shower, so if after looking at the pictures and someone with experience is in or coming to Toronto, I would be happy to pay for some help.
Thank you again,
Bill