Yes there's a certain way ... but there's no way to other than hands on to learn. But what's the problem? Too runny, to stiff, or are you all thumbs?

It doesn't need to be applied perfectly flat and level. Of course you do the best you can but the mud doesn't respond well when you spend too much time working it.
Just get it applied to the lath no thicker than the drywall outside and the backerboard inside. If the curb extends wall to wall then thickness isn't dictated by any factor other than what you're able to work with. Usually 1/2" thickness is all that you need to worry about.
Once it's applied ..... leave it for 2 or 3 hours and then you can scrap it (CAREFULLY) flat and plumb with a slight slope into the shower. Any imperfections can be corrected with thinset the following day.