No skim coat ... just completely install your heating cables THEN apply mortar.
It's very important to make sure the cables are secured well and tight enough so they aren't flopping around.
Nuheat mesh?? Are you talking about cables or mat? I'm unfamiliar with NuHeat mesh.
NuHeat mats are not isolation membranes or slip-sheets. A slip-sheet should have an actual mortar-bed (1-1/4" thick deck-mud) built over top in order for it to succeed.
Install the cable and then embed into mortar so that it becomes part of the slab. THEN intall your isolation membrane over top and then your tile.
Someone else may offer other advice ... this is how I do it.
