1-1/4" to 1-1/2" would be minimum. 3/4" over the pex pipe is average.
For deck mud over concrete you need a loose modified thinset mix which is troweled on just prior to placing the drypac. You don't need wire lath over concrete.
For thin slab, such as above, gypcrete or slurry concrete is preferred for hydronic heat systems. The thicker a slab is in actual concrete, the more efficient it is. Same with deck mud.
What size area are you doing?
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