Hi Ron,
Trowel size depends on not only the size of the tiles, but the texture of the backs of the tiles and how flat the substrate is. The type of adhesive also figures in.
Theoretically, if the backs of the tiles were flat, (such as marble tiles), a 1/4x1/4" trowel would be fine regardless of their size IF the substrate was perfectly flat. That rarely happens. So it depends. Also keep in mind that thin set should have a final cured thickness of at least 3/32" for max strength.
We generally suggest a 1/4x3/8x1/4" square notch for standard tiles in the 12-13" range. Maybe 1/4x1/2x1/4" or 1/2x1/2" for tiles larger than that. It also depends on how you mixed it and how you hold the trowel. Set a few, remove them to check for adhesive transfer.
Who ever gave you that advice on which thin set to use is about 20% right. Stop getting tile advice from your barber please.

Jaz
What are you installing?
Jaz
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