Using the right language really helps...
I had been searching on the term "gap" and didn't find much. Then after reading what Jaz had to say, I searched for "wicking" and found much more info.
Interesting was
this post from Kman from 2008.
Also
this information given to resolve a grout discoloration problem. See post #12821 by RC and post #12822 by Kman.
I'm afraid I'm still confused...
Jaz, I don't mean any disrespect, as I have no experience in these matters, and you have much.
But it would seem to me, that using the traditional mud bed with membrane beneath the tile bed (and above the sloped pre-pan), if any water made it through the grout, and it seems to happen, the water that would then be in the tile-bed would wick up the cement backer board, resulting in discoloration and shower funk.
If I'm reading them right, the posts above seem to suggest this.
...please advise.
-gnu_B