The trowel size is a factor of how flat your tile, and your tiling surface is, not the size of your tile. Generally speaking you should use the smallest square notch trowel that will provide 85% plus coverage. The flatter your surfaces, the smaller notch you can use.
All well and good if you have several trowels to test coverage with. If you have no trowels to begin with, then you should err on the larger size. the 3/8" x 1/4" notch seems to be the most common trowel used, and if there aren't deep cavities on the back of the tile, that size should work. You could buy 3 sizes, one larger and one smaller, and bring back the 2 that don't work. I'm sure a limited test with a trowel won't render it unreturnable.
Maybe someone wiser than I can post some pictures that demonstrate good coverage.